Audre Lorde, I Am Your Sister.
Happy 96th birthday to Steven Grant Rogers, you old man.
I came out as a queer during football practice when my coach was like “son, you’re having trouble throwing straight” and I replied “I’m also having trouble being straight”. It got very quiet and then coach just shook his head and said “throw the damn ball, Cooper”
i have been laughing for 3 million years
All I know is, I got this feeling in my gut and I know, I know that deep down, you gotta be feeling it, too. We’re supposed to be something else. You’re not just some corporate douche bag. This isn’t you. I know you.
a woman has twins and gives them up for adoption
one of them goes to a family in egypt and is named amal the other goes to a family in spain they name him juan
years later juan sends a picture of himself to his birth mother. upon receiving the picture she tells her husband that she wishes she also had a picture of amal
he responds “theyre twins if youve seen juan youve seen amal”
I DONT GET IT????
This might get a tad long, but I think the writers are having Stiles do what’s necessary. Maturing. It’s always been said that for stydia to work in the long run, Stiles and Lydia must first view each other as equals. More than just a silly kid with a crush, or the perfect popular girl put on a pedestal.
To do so, Stiles needs to experience what it’s like to be in relationships. To grow up individually, by himself as well as a partner and learn head on what it’s like to be in these situations. Malia is a great example of growth. I think the writers aren’t necessarily using Malia or stalia as a stepping stone for stydia but more or so a catalyst to ensure possible stydia for the future.
That’s why we still get spoilers of Lydia’s feelings for stiles brewing or we’re told to hold on to faith for stydia even though stalia is still canon.
Some people might get mad, but in my eyes. Scallison is more like Stalia then Stydia, because in each pairing, both Malia and Allison were the boy’s first real girlfriends. In the beginning, the relationship is fire passionate and heartfelt because it’s the first time the boys are exposed to such strong feelings for another being that are equally recuperated. But as we saw with Scallison, even the sweetest of first loves don’t always work out in the end. Because Stiles and Malia are each other’s first, there will always have feelings deeply rooted for one another, paralleling to scallison’s last dying confession of love.
But even if Stiles is with another girl, even if stydia never becomes canon, Stiles will always have feelings for Lydia. Dylan has already said so much himself. “Lydia has Stiles forever.” So I don’t think Stiles is moving on from Lydia, ever actually. Stalia is cute, and what they have is sweet because they are exactly what you expect in first relationships. They’re safe, innocent, dependent, naive. Stiles and Malia are the type of people we sneak off during class to meet up in the janitors closet for a makeout secession, the type of young high school couple who can’t keep their hands of each other.
Stiles and Lydia are the type of people we fall in love-real long lasting love, slowly, and carefully. They’re the couple who fight twenty four seven and spend all hours of the day bickering about every little thing, and spend every night in each other’s arms. They still end up getting married, growing old together despite all the obstacles they’re faced with because the one is always so crazy about the other.
I don’t think the writers would put so much effort into developing Stydia just to have Stiles move on. Stydia is endgame, so for right now it’s okay for them to test the waters because even though Stiles and Lydia aren’t each other’s first’s. They can still be each other’s last’s.